Using Sex Toys With Your Partner For the First Time

Start small if using a the sex toys with your partner. "A bullet vibe is a great first step for couples, because it's cute and not threatening," Reed says. The tiny toy can be used on any erogenous zone including the clitoris as well as the nipples.

Introduce sexually explicit toys to your partner in a nonsexual context -- grabbing one mid-sex can turn off your partner. And remember, a little lube helps!

Dual-Ended vibrators

Double-ended vibrations are a great option for couples that want a toy they can use either together or on their own. This toy made of silicone has a tapered tip for stimulating the G-spot or anal clitoral, while the other end features a longer tip to fill your erogenous zones. This toy made of silicone is free of latex and phthalates for safe play. The soft material is also extremely smooth on the skin when used with your favorite water based oil.

This sex toy's strapless design lets you slip it over your partner's anal while both of you are enjoying the feeling of pegging. The smaller "bulb" end can also be put into your nipples, or anus to stimulate the clitoral and anal regions.

This couples' sex tool includes a motor that vibrates in the head, and a flexible shaft that can be bent in different shapes for an edgy look. The motor generates deep vibrations that can be shared by both partners. The soft silicone is safe for your body. This sex tool is compatible with the majority of anal sphincters. It offers a range of speed, vibration, and pulsation settings you can adjust to your preferences.

This toy is constructed with two ends and can be used as a single unit or in tandem. The arms on the outside are designed to thrum against the perineum and the internal arm is designed to move against the clitoris while you're attempting to penetrate. This sex stick also comes with an echo function which alters the intensity of the vibrations on both sides as you build the arousal. This silicone and glass vibration is a favorite for solo play and penetration because of its silky soft sensation.

Sex-Position Pillows

Sex pillows and bolsters are great to help couples try new angles and positions to get more enjoyment. They can also aid those who are unable to move due to injury or age to reach erogenous regions.

The best pillow for you and your partner is looking at a few aspects like the type of position you want to achieve and whether you require additional support, and the amount of firmness or angulation you're looking for. Dame's Pillo and Liberator Wedge and Ramp Combo for instance are excellent choices for elevating your hips while Adam and Eve's inflatable pillow provides full-body support.

It's crucial to select the right sex pillow since it can also be used for other games like vibrators and clitoral stimulation. This sexy bolster made by Good Vibes includes a storage container for sex toys on the side. It's more discreet than other options.

No matter if you're experimenting with sexually explicit pillows for the first time or are an experienced professional it's a matter of practice to master how to utilize them effectively. Begin by playing with the pillows, incorporating various toys and experiencing the different sensations they can provide. You can also play around with the position of the pillow, since some are better to reach the A-spot and G-zone than others. For those looking to increase the intensity some sex pillows come with restraint loops that can be used to add handcuffs, or other forms of Kink Play. Some pillows also have the sounds of sex that add to the intrigue and excitement.

Blindfolds

Blindfolds can be a discrete and safe way couples can have extra fun toys for couples. Online, you can find numerous kinds of blindfolds. Some are designed specifically for playful kinks.

You can make your own using elastic or fabric scraps however you may want to consider measuring the circumference of your head so that it fits snugly without putting too much pressure on your forehead or eyes. You should also test out the material to make sure it's comfortable before you cut or tie it.

One of the sexiest things about blindfolds is that they assist to block out any visual distractions, making them great for sexual stimulation and orgasm. Blindfolds can be used for sexual sex or simply for foreplay to heighten sexual sensations and to boost anticipation. You can use them for clit stimulation or the classic rabbit style feel with two ears that wrap around and stimulate your clitoris.

Many people do not use sexually explicit toys in the bedroom since they feel it's not appropriate. But when you and your partner are open to new experiences that enhance your pleasure, and strengthen your romantic connection Sex couple toys are a good option. Just remember to keep communication lines open, especially when you're beginning to explore sexual activities together.

Remember that sex couple toys are a way to increase your sexual experience, not a substitute for your partner. If you're not sure how you can talk to your partner about sex toys couples, you can always ask for some tips from experts who specialize in helping couples increase their intimacy.

Nipple Clamps

Nipple clamps will take your nipple playing to a whole new level. These playthings for nipples squeeze or pinch the area which causes pain and excitation while limiting the natural blood flow. The clamp lets blood flow into the nipple every time it is removed. This causes a greater sensation and makes the nipple more sensitive to stimulation, such as licking, pinching and biting. Nipple clamps can be utilized by anyone who is new to the sport, because they don't require a lot of skills. They're also gender-neutral so you can experiment and find out what works best for you.

There are a variety of designs for nipple clips and each one offers a distinct experience. Some, such as the clover or adjustable screw style, offer greater control over the intensity of the pressure on the nipples. Others, such as the Sportsheets chained nipple clamps, are more sexy and are designed to dominate and provide service. Some nipple clamps are even fitted with a collar, designed to increase power play with a flogger or whip.

Some nipple clamps come with an attached vibrator, which can provide even more sensations and a increase when you reach your climax. Lovehoney's Tease Me Adjustable Clamps are compatible with the nippleteaser app, allowing you to control three different vibration speeds and 10 patterns from anywhere around the world.

If you are new to nipple stimulation, it is best to start slowly and work your way upwards. You can buy a pair classic tweezer-style clamps designed for beginners, and then increase the tightness. If you're feeling adventurous, consider the magnetic orbs which are basically nipple clamps with the addition of a vibrator to give it more power.

Lube

Many couples kinky toys are hesitant to introduce toys into their sexual routine. However, switching things up can add enjoyment and excitement. Incorporating a lube or sexual toy can give you new sensations that could be uncomfortable or boring without one. It is essential to keep in mind that sex toys aren't designed to stop sexually transmitted diseases or pregnant women and are primarily designed to increase pleasure.

It is essential that you and your partner talk openly about the use of sexual toys and determine if they are suitable for your relationship. A good way to do this is to ask your partner what feels good for them and then try different sex toys to find the best match.

While the concept of sex toys might seem like a taboo, the truth is that they can be used by people of any sexual orientation or gender identity. There are also sex toy that can be used as an internal masturbator. These are great for couples who want to try clitoral or pegging.

It is essential to choose the right lubricant to meet your needs. Most lubes are water-based, but some may be silicone or oil-based. Oil-based lubricants tend to be oily and leave behind a residue. Silicone lubricants may damage condoms, as well as sexual products.

Water-based lubes can be found at the majority of big drug stores and pharmacies, while silicone and oil-based lubes are available at a few specialty toy stores and online retailers. Some lubes are even available in a variety of scents and flavors, which can add to the excitement. Regardless of what you choose make sure you read the label carefully to ensure it will not irritate your female genitals. You should also test the product on your hands first before applying it directly on your nipples, or other intimate areas. Avoid anything with a long list ingredients.